Nothing in this world we live in can prepare us to lose someone we love to death. I am sending my condolences to both family and friends due to the death of Debra Ortiz. There are, however, future promises for our dear loved ones in the Bible at John 5:28-29 and Rev. 21:4. For more information about these future promises for families, individuals and children go to jw.org and download the publication "When Someone You Love Dies". It's a wonderful publication for people of all religious backgrounds and has been very comforting for me when I have lost my dear loved ones in death. When someone you love dies always keep their memory tucked safely away in your heart.